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  • About
    • Publications • Media
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    • Events
    • MUST-HAVES
  • Blog
    • 5 Ways to Teach Your Kids Entrepreneurial Skills They Can Use for Life
    • Social skills far outweigh academic success in early years
    • How to Help Children Develop Grit
    • My 2019 Reflections
    • My Top 14 Passive Income Ideas for 2019
    • Why Launching 4 Books in 1 Month Hasn't Made Me Crazy
    • Toughness Between the Ears Serves You Everywhere in Life
    • The Benefits of Juicing
    • The Truth about Home-Schooling
    • Owning a Restaurant
    • Fail. Then, grow grit.
    • I have been married to 4 different men
    • Tennis skills translate to life
    • Goal-setting for kids
    • Boys and businesses
    • I Eat Shit Everyday
    • The process will be slow, but you will succeed
  • Books
    • Ninja Life Hacks Series >
      • Collect Them All
      • Ninja Printables
      • Ninja Journals
      • Ninja Apparel and More
    • Mini Movers and Shakers Series
    • UnicornPreneur Series >
      • Arial, the Astronaut >
        • Astronaut coloring pages
        • Astronaut DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Unicorn >
        • Unicorn coloring pages
      • Arial, the YouTuber >
        • YouTuber Printables
        • YouTuber DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Yogi >
        • Yogi Printables
        • Yogi DIY crafts
      • Arial, the Chef >
        • Chef Printables
        • Chef DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Good Witch >
        • Good Witch Printables
        • Good Witch DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Secret Santa >
        • Secret Santa Printables
    • Grow Grit Series >
      • How to Win the Wimbledon in Pajamas >
        • Wimbledon VideoBook
        • Mental Toughness Growth Plan
        • Tennis DIY Craft
      • How to Win the World Cup in Pajamas >
        • World Cup VideoBook
        • Mental Toughness Growth Plan
        • World Cup DIY Craft
      • How to Win the Gold Medal in Pajamas >
        • LUNCH
        • Grit Growth Plan
        • Olympics DIY Craft
    • Sushi: A Children's Book >
      • Sushi DIY Craft
    • Schools • Bookstores >
      • Adopt a Teacher
  • Health Grit
    • All Recipes >
      • Banana Greek Yogurt Oat Muffins
      • Indulge with moderation
      • Clean Chocolate Candy
      • Maple-glazed Pork with Sweet Mashed Potatoes, Roasted Cauliflower, and Arugula Salad
      • Meal Prep Tips and Ideas
      • Matcha Green Tea Pecan Protein Balls
    • 55 Scrumptious Shakeology Recipes
    • Shakeology
    • BREAKFAST/SHAKES >
      • 55 Scrumptious Shakeology Recipes
      • Crispy Bacon
    • DINNER
    • DESSERTS • SNACKS
    • DRESSINGS
    • MARY'S NUTRITION TIPS
    • MARY'S MINDSET TIPS
    • HOW-TOs
    • Fit Grit >
      • 15 Day FitLife Challenge >
        • 15 Day FitLife Challenge Application
        • 15 Day FitLIfe Membership Page
        • 3 Day Coach Sneak Peek
        • Free FitLife Lifestyle E-book >
          • Free FitLife Lifestyle E-book pdf
      • Fit Challenge Packs >
        • 21 day Fix EXTREME
        • 3 Day Refresh Challenge Pack
        • Insanity Maxx 30
      • Sign Up Free Coaching
      • Yoga
      • HIIT
      • Buns
      • Arms
      • Abs
      • Legs
  • Business Grit
    • Be a Restaurant Franchisee >
      • Restaurant Coaching
    • Be a Writer/Publisher >
      • Author/Publisher Coaching
      • Courses >
        • How to Convert Your Book on Amazon Into a Cash Cow >
          • How to Convert Your Book on Amazon Into a Cash Cow
      • Free For Authors >
        • ​Action Steps to Publish on KDP
        • Self-Publishing Tools
        • Author Tools
        • 7 BEST ways get Amazon reviews >
          • 7 Best Ways to Get Reviews PDF
        • Is a Press Release Really Worth It
        • 7 Strategies for KENP Reads
        • Work on Your Business, Not In It
        • Should You Become an Amazon Influencer
        • My Publishing Journal
      • Publishing Packages
      • Social Media Influencers
    • Be a Coach >
      • The Grow Grit Team
      • Success Stories >
        • FITNESS CHALLENGERS
        • Business Success
      • Coach Academy Members Area
    • Business and Life Coaching
  • Restaurants
    • Nhinja Sushi & Wok >
      • Nhinja May
      • Nhinja Edmond
      • Nhinja Rockwell
      • Nhinja Yukon
    • Nhinjo Sushi • Grill

3/13/2017

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I have been married to 4 different men....

 
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I have been married to 4 different men.

In the beginning, I fell in love with a smoking, bad boy sporting a #23 jersey. And then I fell in love all over again to a doting father. In his 20s realizing that he was now a family man, he made the decision to drop his smoking habit for the sake of his health and his family. In our 30s, I realized I had married an ambitious restauranteur who would blaze a trail in the local food landscape. Along the way, he became a full-fledged entrepreneur and real estate developer. During this time in our marriage, we rarely saw each other.  And as I enter into my 40s, I have found that I've married an avid outdoorsman-hunter and fisher. That means I have fallen in love with 4 different versions of the same man. After 20 years, I can confidently say Kang is still my soulmate. 
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This message is to offer hope to those who may be suffering from indifferences or marital strife. There is light at the end of tunnel. The devil dares us to keep trying. Keep going. I want you to know that the perfect marriage doesn't exist. Everyone works at it. There are times when we 'just don't wanna'. And I'd be lying if I didn't feel despair, loneliness, or desperation sometimes. For all the low times though, they are matched and exceeded by times of pure happiness. Keep trying, it's so worth it.
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3/13/2017

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I have been where you are, I know how you feel..

 
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​I want to set the record straight. You see me and my lifestyle and think to yourself-- She has it so easy. She doesn't have to work. She has successful businesses already. OH she's on the beach AGAIN. She was already fit. She has a perfect marriage. She's already a natural. OH there she goes again in her new outfit. Sometimes, people see all the glory and didn't know me when I had NOTHING. I have faced adversity time and time again. The difference is when I fail, I get back up and try again. It's a viscious cycle that needs to be repeated. You will face adverse situations, challenges, and obstacles.. I have:

-Not been able to make $500 rent with a family of 3
-Worked at TJ MAXX while pregnant
-Had three boys
-Been Skinny Fat
-Achieved Skinny the Unhealthy Way
-Worked 12 hour days, six days a week for years at a time
-Talked about the D-word plenty with my hubby of 19 years
-Had two failed restaurants
-Been ridiculed by friends and family

Wherever you are and whatever you are facing, I want to encourage you to not shrink back. Instead, RISE UP to the occasion, believe that you will conquer it. Set long term goals, break them down to smaller ones and review them regularly like once a week, have a heart to heart with your spouse on where your life, business, or fitness is headed and which way you would like to see it go, implement a strategy like your life depended on it, repeat the same mundane tasks over and over again until you find success, and surround yourself with positive, uplifting, ambitious people.

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