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  • About
    • Publications • Media
    • Contact
    • Events
    • MUST-HAVES
  • Blog
    • 5 Ways to Teach Your Kids Entrepreneurial Skills They Can Use for Life
    • Social skills far outweigh academic success in early years
    • How to Help Children Develop Grit
    • My 2019 Reflections
    • My Top 14 Passive Income Ideas for 2019
    • Why Launching 4 Books in 1 Month Hasn't Made Me Crazy
    • Toughness Between the Ears Serves You Everywhere in Life
    • The Benefits of Juicing
    • The Truth about Home-Schooling
    • Owning a Restaurant
    • Fail. Then, grow grit.
    • I have been married to 4 different men
    • Tennis skills translate to life
    • Goal-setting for kids
    • Boys and businesses
    • I Eat Shit Everyday
    • The process will be slow, but you will succeed
  • Books
    • Ninja Life Hacks Series >
      • Collect Them All
      • Ninja Printables
      • Ninja Journals
      • Ninja Apparel and More
    • Mini Movers and Shakers Series
    • UnicornPreneur Series >
      • Arial, the Astronaut >
        • Astronaut coloring pages
        • Astronaut DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Unicorn >
        • Unicorn coloring pages
      • Arial, the YouTuber >
        • YouTuber Printables
        • YouTuber DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Yogi >
        • Yogi Printables
        • Yogi DIY crafts
      • Arial, the Chef >
        • Chef Printables
        • Chef DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Good Witch >
        • Good Witch Printables
        • Good Witch DIY Craft
      • Arial, the Secret Santa >
        • Secret Santa Printables
    • Grow Grit Series >
      • How to Win the Wimbledon in Pajamas >
        • Wimbledon VideoBook
        • Mental Toughness Growth Plan
        • Tennis DIY Craft
      • How to Win the World Cup in Pajamas >
        • World Cup VideoBook
        • Mental Toughness Growth Plan
        • World Cup DIY Craft
      • How to Win the Gold Medal in Pajamas >
        • LUNCH
        • Grit Growth Plan
        • Olympics DIY Craft
    • Sushi: A Children's Book >
      • Sushi DIY Craft
    • Schools • Bookstores >
      • Adopt a Teacher
  • Health Grit
    • All Recipes >
      • Banana Greek Yogurt Oat Muffins
      • Indulge with moderation
      • Clean Chocolate Candy
      • Maple-glazed Pork with Sweet Mashed Potatoes, Roasted Cauliflower, and Arugula Salad
      • Meal Prep Tips and Ideas
      • Matcha Green Tea Pecan Protein Balls
    • 55 Scrumptious Shakeology Recipes
    • Shakeology
    • BREAKFAST/SHAKES >
      • 55 Scrumptious Shakeology Recipes
      • Crispy Bacon
    • DINNER
    • DESSERTS • SNACKS
    • DRESSINGS
    • MARY'S NUTRITION TIPS
    • MARY'S MINDSET TIPS
    • HOW-TOs
    • Fit Grit >
      • 15 Day FitLife Challenge >
        • 15 Day FitLife Challenge Application
        • 15 Day FitLIfe Membership Page
        • 3 Day Coach Sneak Peek
        • Free FitLife Lifestyle E-book >
          • Free FitLife Lifestyle E-book pdf
      • Fit Challenge Packs >
        • 21 day Fix EXTREME
        • 3 Day Refresh Challenge Pack
        • Insanity Maxx 30
      • Sign Up Free Coaching
      • Yoga
      • HIIT
      • Buns
      • Arms
      • Abs
      • Legs
  • Business Grit
    • Be a Restaurant Franchisee >
      • Restaurant Coaching
    • Be a Writer/Publisher >
      • Author/Publisher Coaching
      • Courses >
        • How to Convert Your Book on Amazon Into a Cash Cow >
          • How to Convert Your Book on Amazon Into a Cash Cow
      • Free For Authors >
        • ​Action Steps to Publish on KDP
        • Self-Publishing Tools
        • Author Tools
        • 7 BEST ways get Amazon reviews >
          • 7 Best Ways to Get Reviews PDF
        • Is a Press Release Really Worth It
        • 7 Strategies for KENP Reads
        • Work on Your Business, Not In It
        • Should You Become an Amazon Influencer
        • My Publishing Journal
      • Publishing Packages
      • Social Media Influencers
    • Be a Coach >
      • The Grow Grit Team
      • Success Stories >
        • FITNESS CHALLENGERS
        • Business Success
      • Coach Academy Members Area
    • Business and Life Coaching
  • Restaurants
    • Nhinja Sushi & Wok >
      • Nhinja May
      • Nhinja Edmond
      • Nhinja Rockwell
      • Nhinja Yukon
    • Nhinjo Sushi • Grill

2/3/2020

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How to Help Children Develop Grit

 
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Grit is a fairly new word used in the social emotional arena. Based on Angela Duckworth’s 2016 book titled Grit, it is a key emotional intelligence skill that is derived from both passion and perseverance. I believe it is a predicator of success in all areas of life including financial, fitness, marital, and career. 

But if grit is so important, how do you develop passion and perseverance in kids? Read on to see my top tips on how, as parents and educators, we can help our children develop grit.

1. Entertain our kids’ urge to explore the hobbies and activities that attract them. If we allow our kids to explore what they find interesting, overcoming obstacles can come more naturally and giving up will be less of an option. The more they understand that even mistakes and failures teach us, the more they can focus on celebrating their journey, mistakes and all. It’s important to allow kids to see how it feels to be scared, and how to move past fear and learn to be brave. 

2. Encourage them to set goals. Writing down goals is essential for intrinsic motivation and a growth mindset. It’s a long journey to achieve something you set your sights on so if kids are able to find a love for battling challenges and grow up eager to explore solutions to obstacles, they will succeed. Allowing kids to focus on performance goals, rather than outcome goals provides a basis for long-term satisfaction. Goals can be divided into these 3 subcategories:
        a. Process Goals: This is the only goal that one can control. An example of a process goal would be practicing soccer passes/kicks for 30 minutes. 
        b. Performance Goals: This goal cannot be controlled. An example of a performance goal would be achieving 20/30 successful soccer ball passes or kicks.
            c. Outcome Goals: This goal cannot be controlled. An example of this would be scoring 24 soccer goals for the season or winning the end-of-season soccer championship.
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3. Empower our kids’ with the self-help tools that foster positivity and optimism. We can do this by teaching them the 4 Cs:
Confident - I am confident when I visualize my success.
Calm - I stay calm by using positive mantras like ‘I can do this!’
Carefree - I feel carefree when I face my fear of failure. I do this by asking myself, What’s the worst thing that can happen? I answer it. Then, I ask myself Will I survive?
Capable - I am capable of creating and achieving goals.

The 4 Cs empower kids by giving them the skill set needed to overcome obstacles. Once learned, kids can use at their disposal to recognize negativity and employ a variety of tools such as visualization, creating good habits, positive mantras, and setting goals.  We all get side-tracked and that's why it's important to have good habits and mantras to reset oneself.  With these tools, kids can get back on track and focus on the task at hand. Life itself is overwhelming so if we help equip our kids with emotional intelligence with which they can be self-sufficient, it will help serve them for life. ​
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This is my son, Kobe. He created a goal of helping kids' with their self doubts. He has published 3 books at the age of 14.

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Kobe doesn't like public speaking but he decided to face his fears with his first book reading. 

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My youngest son, Jojo created a goal of saving $10,000 for his first car. Here he is with his vision board at age 11.

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Jojo created several businesses by the time he was 12. Some of those include candy machines, personalized pop sockets for local businesses, and a Youtube channel.

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